Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Jack, Age 8, on Marriage

As I was typing up a few discussion questions for tonight's marriage enrichment class, J shared some words of 8-year-old wisdom during about a 7 minute time period. 

“The most important things I know about marriage are love and what you learn from it.” 

What else do you know about marriage?

“Let me think.  It adds a lot of unique qualities.  It can change your life.  Hmm.  Marriage can bring you closer to God.  Love is one of the most important things ever.  In marriage hard times are learning times; you can learn something from the hard times.”

"Marriage isn't just love, it's God's work and a time to learn.  God never made marriage just to get you to know each other, he made it for you to learn."

Just because you know a few things about marriage doesn't mean you can get married anytime soon.

"I know." (smiles)

"Marriage doesn't just mean you love them, it means you heart them-and what I mean by heart them is a bunch of different things.  It means that you're ready for the challenge.  There are roads ahead with bumps.  You have to get over those bumps and you can't without God's help."

How do you know all of this?

"Um.  I just read the Bible and basically guessed out of my mind what I know.  God basically helps me speak."

This boy.  :)

2 comments:

Aunt Kathey said...

That is just beautiful and so thoughtful of Jack at 8 years old. I love what he said about the heart. We use the word love for so many things.
I think it is incredibly insightful about the hard times. He really seems to have a hold on so many truths.
You and Brian are doing something so right and always leading him back to God.
Love,
Aunt Kathey

LeAnna said...

What a phenomenal perspective! And kudos to you for documenting it! This will be an even richer treasure when he gets married one day! My favorite line "God basically helps me speak." So precious!